In 2012, my
wife Jamie Matheny was diagnosed with preeclampsia while 32 weeks pregnant with
our first child. Her blood pressure started to rise, her ankles swelled, and
she released a significant amount of protein in her urine. Once this was
known, she was transported via ambulance from Calvert Memorial Hospital to John
Hopkins Bayview. She was medicated
for two days. Then on December 13, 2012, Kylie Marie Matheny was born weighing
2lbs. 14oz. She was in the NICU for 33 days with only one significant
episode. One morning, we had to authorize a spinal tap at 3am because
Kylie wasn’t doing well. It was an extremely stressful and trying time for
us. We lived two hours away and had to work out the logistics of getting
breast milk to the NICU. Friends housed us some nights. The Hopkins Children’s
House accommodated us others.
Kylie turns two on Saturday, and she is doing great. We
enrolled her in the infants and toddler program when she came home. She’s
exceeded expectations in all assessment areas. We always
wanted two children but were uncertain of the risk due to Jamie’s preeclampsia.
Various physicians had different opinions. One said the risk was 10-20%,
and we decided to give it another try. After Jamie got pregnant, a high risk doctor stated the probability of her preeclampsia
returning was around 60%.
Jamie started
showing signs of preeclampsia again. She had high blood pressure, slightly
elevated signs of protein in her urine, no swelling. She was put on bed rest, a
special diet and was closely monitored. A checkup yielded that Jamie’s
biophysical and cord doppler were abnormal, and the baby was not moving.
Jamie’s OB determined immediately that the baby had to be delivered via
emergency cesarean as the baby was in fetal distress. Once we arrived at
Hopkins Bayview, Jamie was immediately rushed to the Operating Room. There, she
developed eclampsia as her blood pressure levels spiked to 220/110. I was in
the OR with her. Gavin was delivered, and Jamie’s blood pressure levels dropped
immediately. She had a seizure, which lasted roughly 40 seconds while she was
still being operated on. She eventually stabilized and the operation
completed. She was monitored in the ICU that evening. Gavin had a
hard time breathing on his own. He too had blood pressure and malnourishment
issues. He was taken to the NICU, intubated and stabilized. Ironically,
Gavin Michael Matheny was born on November 17, 2014 -- World Prematurity Day ☺.
He weighed 1lb. 15oz. His gestational
age was 26w2d +/- 1w6d.
Gavin is
doing great now at Hopkins Bayview! He started feedings and just got off
of antibiotics. He lost an ounce but just gained one back. He’s a fighter and
makes us very proud. I’m extremely proud of my beautiful wife who stayed
very strong throughout this process. She thinks that she’s somehow to blame,
and I reassure her daily that is not the case. I thought I was going to lose
her and my son, all at the same time, there in that operating room. The feeling
is very weird the second time around. You know what to do or how to react
but you still don’t know what to expect. You live day to day, and you’re
thankful for every moment within that day.
6 comments:
Beautiful story and post. Prayers for you and your family through this journey in life. We all miss you at work!
Wow Jon! I had no idea how much you, Jamie and your babies have gone through. Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers. xoxo
Man...Dont make me cry. Tell me when, where, and what I could do to help. Be thankful for ur FAM. Ur a good man and I don't even know u that well. Just know ur story means a lot. Stay strong man...
Didn't mean for it to be anonymous. I Dont use this stuff a whole lot. Point and support is still there. Its Eric Zernhelt.
Thank you all so very much for the kind words. Baby Gavin is doing great! He's gaining weight day by day and my wife is doing a lot better. We truly appreciate the overwhelming amount of support that we're receiving and the amount of views amounted shares that our story is getting. We're trying to bring awareness to preeclampsia, eclampsia, and prematurity. Not to mention the alarming amount of premature births in our area.
Gavin is 3 lbs 3 oz now :) We hope to bring him home soon.
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